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Not clever but an honest response that won interviewer's heart

Sarfaraz_Shaikh
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In my recent interview with SAP, I was posed with a question that tested my ability to balance family life and professional responsibilities.

The interviewer remarked, "Since you have been married and blessed with a child, you must be busy with family and won't be able to focus on work."

Here’s how I responded, drawing valuable lessons from my personal life that translate seamlessly into my professional environment:

1. Patience:
I shared that my family life taught me the crucial importance of patience. Just as maintaining patience is vital in nurturing relationships with my wife and child, it is equally critical in a professional setting. Patience allows me to navigate challenging situations and sustain positive relationships with my colleagues.

2. Becoming a Great Listener:
Being a good listener is essential in understanding my wife and child better. This skill has immensely benefited my professional interactions as well, enabling me to comprehend my team's perspectives and needs more effectively.

3. Managing Relationships:
Managing a family requires balancing various dynamics, which has honed my ability to manage difficult and dominant teams at work. It has taught me how to navigate different personalities and foster a collaborative environment.

4. Empathy:
Understanding and empathizing with my family's feelings has been crucial at home. This empathy extends to my professional life, allowing me to connect with my team on a deeper level, understanding their challenges and supporting them through difficult times.

5. Give and Take:
The give-and-take dynamic within my family has taught me the importance of mutual respect and trust. In the workplace, this translates into building trust with my colleagues and mentoring them, thus enhancing team capabilities and fostering a growth-oriented environment.

By sharing these insights, I aimed to demonstrate that family life has not only enriched my personal experiences but has also equipped me with skills that are invaluable in the professional realm. These lessons have made me a more effective, empathetic, capable of managing both personal and professional responsibilities successfully.